Ahhhh Valentine’s Day… I’m not trying to be a downer, but it’s often quite underwhelming and cheesy, am I right? When I first got married I told my husband that the pressure was off for him ever buying me a dozen red roses and a box of chocolates. I can’t think of anything I would like any less, especially for how cliché it is. I’d much rather have something unique like a one-of-a-kind estate piece of jewelry that can be handed down to our children, an experience such as a live music show or a trip somewhere warmer, or even a thoughtful handwritten note listing his favorite memories of us over the last 21 years and a mini peppermint pattie (my favorite). You’ve gotta think outside the [chocolate] box and get a little creative to avoid the commercialism of it all, to make it a meaningful and lasting display of affection.

I don’t try, claim or pretend to be a style or fashion blogger; but occasionally I enjoy sharing ideas, tips, tricks and finds to give back to followers who spend just a little bit of your valuable time taking interest in my work. Thank you! I’m so grateful. Here are a few ideas to pass along to your hubby or boyfriend. But, when you really think about it…All you need is love. Love is all you need.

XO,

All images courtesy of websites listed below.

1. Heart on my Sleeve Sweatshirt $44
   Because it’s cute AND clever.
   vicicollection.com
2. Custom Diamond Initial Necklace in Gold $1200
   Obsessed with these. Love a necklace you wear and forget it’s there until everyone comments on it. The capital H is definitely on my wish list.
   Ladybird Jewelry by Emily Dee
   (Handmade in Nashville)
   Buy locally at H. Audrey Boutique or order via email Emily@LadyBirdJewelry.com
3. Le Labo Santal 26 Candle $75
   Because it smells like heaven and your home will too.
   nordstrom.com
4. Estate Brooch Pendant .10 carats of European cut diamonds in a 14k white gold $675
   These and so many other beautiful and unique estate pieces that will become YOUR family heirlooms. Love my friends at Walton’s Antique Jewelry in Franklin, TN!
5. Golden Goose Sneakers Hi Star $695
   Happy (and Sparkly) Feet!
   goldengoosedeluxebrand.com
   Also buy locally:
   Nashville: H. Audrey Boutique
   Birmingham: Etc.
6. Faux Fur Alpaca Throw $129
   February is just way too cold. Always in need of a cozy blanket…glass of wine and movie not included.
   potternbarn.com
7. Anthropologie Kiss Mugs $32
   To remind you that every morning should start with coffee and a kiss…in that order.
   anthropologie.com
8. Frette Grace Italian Sheet Set $1200
   Because sleep is a luxury.
   frette.com
9. Vogue X Music Coffee Table Book $40
   Lady GaGa is on the cover…in a big pink hat…need I say more. I just bought it for myself!
   amazon.com
10. Calvin Klein Velvet Bra $38
    Again, February cold weather means everything that touches me must be cozy.
    urbanoutfitters.com
11. Nancy Gonzalez Mini Lily Genuine Crocodile (in pink for V-Day, of course) $2650 
    A Tiny Top Handle Bag because whowhatwear.com says we need one…and Kate Middleton loves them too. Nice pop of color to head into spring.
12. Anthropologie Flora Nikrooz Marion Robe in Black $98
    Love the lightweight, feminine lace sleeves on this one because I get hot when I’m drying my hair.
    anthropologie.com
13. Big Book of Chic by Interior Designer Miles Redd $85
    Every home should have some “wow” and curiosities, even if only for good dinner party conversation.
14. Free People Red Bikini $135 top + $110 bottom
    Because I’m always a sucker for a one shoulder anything…add two tickets to paradise (somewhere tropical) and it’s the best Valentine’s Day ever!
15. Lana Jewelry Narrow Flat Upside Down 14k Yellow Gold Hoops $430
    I’ve never met a pair of hoop earrings I didn’t like.
    saksfifthavenue.com
16. P.J. Salvage Camo Lounge Pants $52
    I have to admit I just purchased these and have a hard time taking them off. I love most anything camo and these are like your favorite old t-shirt that’s been washed and worn so many times it’s perfect. Soft, comfy and cute. Dress them up with a crisp white button-down half-tucked and some pumps if you feeling like getting out of the house!
    nordstrom.com
    Also available locally at Habit in Franklin and Green Hills
17. STOCKHOLM SG 79 No 16 Eau de Parfum $400
    A sweet friend of mine from Sweden just gave my daughter this perfume for her 16th birthday. I’ve never seen it here in the U.S. which makes it that more unique and her special scent. Trust me on this one. When you read the floral notes in the online description you will understand why it’s just perfect.
18. Commando Gram Panties $24
    These feel like…well you don’t even feel them. They are the best panties ever…especially under leggings. No seams. No show. Commando bodysuits are great too!
19. Givenchy Limited Edition Rouge Interdit Lipstick $34
    I’ll admit, I’m always self-conscious when I try to pull off a red lipstick because I’m usually a berry-brown nude every day. However, I love a true red lip with black for a classic evening look, especially for a Valentine’s date night. I have some friends that can really rock this look. You know who you are!
    saksfifthavenue.com
20. Tickets to a Show at The Mother Church(Priceless)
    Because the Historic Ryman Auditorium is a magical place to experience live music with your love.
    ryman.com

One last bonus idea…
Membership to a Great Gym to Workout with Your Better Half (Priceless)
My recommendation if you are in Nashville is SHED! Best workout in town for strength and cardio mix. Do something together that’s fun and good for you! The gift that keeps on giving back.
shedgroupfitness.com

And… to go with that gym membership…here’s some fashionable workout clothes you’ll love to sweat in. Check out these red legging and sneakers for your Valentine’s Day morning workout. Rock it!