Heather’s Valentine’s Day Gift Guide

Ahhhh Valentine’s Day… I’m not trying to be a downer, but it’s often quite underwhelming and cheesy, am I right? When I first got married I told my husband that the pressure was off for him ever buying me a dozen red roses and a box of chocolates. I can’t think of anything I would like any less, especially for how cliché it is. I’d much rather have something unique like a one-of-a-kind estate piece of jewelry that can be handed down to our children, an experience such as a live music show or a trip somewhere warmer, or even a thoughtful handwritten note listing his favorite memories of us over the last 21 years and a mini peppermint pattie (my favorite). You’ve gotta think outside the [chocolate] box and get a little creative to avoid the commercialism of it all, to make it a meaningful and lasting display of affection.

I don’t try, claim or pretend to be a style or fashion blogger; but occasionally I enjoy sharing ideas, tips, tricks and finds to give back to followers who spend just a little bit of your valuable time taking interest in my work. Thank you! I’m so grateful. Here are a few ideas to pass along to your hubby or boyfriend. But, when you really think about it…All you need is love. Love is all you need.

XO,

HeatherSig.jpgValentinesPicks02_01.jpgAll images courtesy of websites listed below.

  1. Heart on my Sleeve Sweatshirt $44
    Because it’s cute AND clever.
    vicicollection.com
  2. Custom Diamond Initial Necklace in Gold $1200
    Obsessed with these. Love a necklace you wear and forget it’s there until everyone comments on it. The capital H is definitely on my wish list.
    Ladybird Jewelry by Emily Dee
    (Handmade in Nashville)
    Buy locally at H. Audrey Boutique or order via email Emily@LadyBirdJewelry.com
  3. Le Labo Santal 26 Candle $75
    Because it smells like heaven and your home will too.
    nordstrom.com
  4. Estate Brooch Pendant .10 carats of European cut diamonds in a 14k white gold $675
    These and so many other beautiful and unique estate pieces that will become YOUR family heirlooms. Love my friends at Walton’s Antique Jewelry in Franklin, TN!
  5. Golden Goose Sneakers Hi Star $695
    Happy (and Sparkly) Feet!
    goldengoosedeluxebrand.com
    Also buy locally:
    Nashville: H. Audrey Boutique
    Birmingham: Etc.
  6. Faux Fur Alpaca Throw $129
    February is just way too cold. Always in need of a cozy blanket…glass of wine and movie not included.
    potternbarn.com
  7. Anthropologie Kiss Mugs $32
    To remind you that every morning should start with coffee and a kiss…in that order.
    anthropologie.com
  8. Frette Grace Italian Sheet Set $1200
    Because sleep is a luxury.
    frette.com
  9. Vogue X Music Coffee Table Book $40
    Lady GaGa is on the cover…in a big pink hat…need I say more. I just bought it for myself!
    amazon.com
  10. Calvin Klein Velvet Bra $38
    Again, February cold weather means everything that touches me must be cozy.
    urbanoutfitters.com
  11. Nancy Gonzalez Mini Lily Genuine Crocodile (in pink for V-Day, of course) $2650 
    A Tiny Top Handle Bag because whowhatwear.com says we need one…and Kate Middleton loves them too. Nice pop of color to head into spring.
  12. Anthropologie Flora Nikrooz Marion Robe in Black $98
    Love the lightweight, feminine lace sleeves on this one because I get hot when I’m drying my hair.
    anthropologie.com
  13. Big Book of Chic by Interior Designer Miles Redd $85
    Every home should have some “wow” and curiosities, even if only for good dinner party conversation.
  14. Free People Red Bikini $135 top + $110 bottom
    Because I’m always a sucker for a one shoulder anything…add two tickets to paradise (somewhere tropical) and it’s the best Valentine’s Day ever!
  15. Lana Jewelry Narrow Flat Upside Down 14k Yellow Gold Hoops $430
    I’ve never met a pair of hoop earrings I didn’t like.
    saksfifthavenue.com
  16. P.J. Salvage Camo Lounge Pants $52
    I have to admit I just purchased these and have a hard time taking them off. I love most anything camo and these are like your favorite old t-shirt that’s been washed and worn so many times it’s perfect. Soft, comfy and cute. Dress them up with a crisp white button-down half-tucked and some pumps if you feeling like getting out of the house!
    nordstrom.com
    Also available locally at Habit in Franklin and Green Hills
  17. STOCKHOLM SG 79 No 16 Eau de Parfum $400
    A sweet friend of mine from Sweden just gave my daughter this perfume for her 16th birthday. I’ve never seen it here in the U.S. which makes it that more unique and her special scent. Trust me on this one. When you read the floral notes in the online description you will understand why it’s just perfect.
  18. Commando Gram Panties $24
    These feel like…well you don’t even feel them. They are the best panties ever…especially under leggings. No seams. No show. Commando bodysuits are great too!
  19. Givenchy Limited Edition Rouge Interdit Lipstick $34
    I’ll admit, I’m always self-conscious when I try to pull off a red lipstick because I’m usually a berry-brown nude every day. However, I love a true red lip with black for a classic evening look, especially for a Valentine’s date night. I have some friends that can really rock this look. You know who you are!
    saksfifthavenue.com
  20. Tickets to a Show at The Mother Church(Priceless)
    Because the Historic Ryman Auditorium is a magical place to experience live music with your love.
    ryman.com

One last bonus idea…
Membership to a Great Gym to Workout with Your Better Half (Priceless)
My recommendation if you are in Nashville is SHED! Best workout in town for strength and cardio mix. Do something together that’s fun and good for you! The gift that keeps on giving back.
shedgroupfitness.com

And… to go with that gym membership…here’s some fashionable workout clothes you’ll love to sweat in. Check out these red legging and sneakers for your Valentine’s Day morning workout. Rock it!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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For some of my clients, it’s your first Valentine’s as a married couple. For some, it’s your first Valentine’s as an engaged couple and you are eagerly planning your wedding and anticipating your big day. All so exciting and new! For others, you are like my husband and me, who are celebrating many years together. Whatever you are doing to celebrate your love for each other, I hope your day has been perfect!

My hubby and I are pretty practical when it comes to most holidays…especially this one. We don’t do cards. We don’t do flowers. We don’t do chocolate. What we do is time…because really, that’s what we need the most…Time together to have a really great date night. We get dressed up and go to one of our favorite local spots for drinks, dinner and conversation, uninterrupted by kids or devices.

Most days marriage is fun and easy and comfortable, but some days marriage is hard and it’s work. (For better or worse) But it’s also very much worth it. We have to say we are wrong. We have to say we are sorry. We have to forgive. We have to love purposefully and intentionally. And, we learn a little bit more each day, each week, each month and each year what that is supposed to look like. Without the Lord in the center of our marriage it might have crumbled already, like so many others have, but He’s the glue and we have to keep running to Him as the instruction manual on how to make this marriage thing work.

I’m so thankful for this cute boy I met 25 years ago in college at The University of Alabama. So thankful for his constant love, adoration and forgiveness. Also for the way he just “gets” me and my crazy whims. He gets that I have big dreams and little patience. He gets that I need my creative outlets and helps make that happen. He gets that I shake my leg when I get ancy. He gets that I need independence, but that doesn’t mean I don’t need him. He gets that I need exercise to avoid the grumpies. He gets that I go full force, full speed and then one day hit a wall and need to sleep for an entire day…

So on this Valentine’s Day, I’d like to give a shout out to my hubby Brad, my Valentine for 19 years and counting. Happy Valentine’s, Babe! I love you! “Grow old along with me…the best is yet to be.” — Robert Downing.